End-of-Life Doula Services

Rev. Jessica Johansson, MDiv

End-of-Life Doula (NEDA Proficient)

Serving the Greater Monadnock Region of New Hampshire

What is an End of Life or Death Doula?

End-of-life doulas (also known as death doulas, death midwives, or soul midwives) are trained professionals whose priority is ensuring a peaceful and dignified death experience. They do this by providing non-medical, holistic support and comfort to the individual and their loved ones in the dying process.

This support may include education and guidance as well as emotional, spiritual, or practical care, as early as initial diagnosis through the bereavement period.  

There are a variety of ways in which an end-of-life doula will serve these needs, including through:

  • Educating the dying person and family about the dying process
  • Assisting with advance care and end-of-life planning
  • Creating uniquely-tailored vigil plans
  • Doing life review and legacy work
  • Designing rituals to support and integrate transitions
  • Advocating for your needs and collaborating with medical team/hospice, caregivers and loved ones
  • Providing practical, spiritual, and emotional support before, during, and just after death
 
In short, an end-of-life doula responds to the needs of those they serve.

“For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.”

– Kahlil Gibran

Why Work with an End of Life Doula?

The period surrounding death can often be stressful and challenging for any family, and most people are often unprepared to navigate this time of unknowns. End-of-life doulas are there to help carry some of the mental and emotional weight that naturally arises in this process. We prioritize ensuring that the last days are peaceful and dignified, filled with both grace and meaning. We support the family in preparing for and processing the transition of their loved one. A doula can also be an incredible resource in managing practical and logistical concerns, allowing the bereaved to focus on their loved one and each other instead.

Working with an end-of-life doula ensures that you will have compassionate grounded support and guidance throughout the end-of-life process. You don’t have to do this alone.

“How people die remains in the memory of those who live on.”

– Dame Cicely Saunders

Is a Good Death Really Possible?

There is no one answer to the question of what constitutes a good death. For some people, it may mean dying peacefully in their sleep after a long and happy life. For others, it may mean having the opportunity to say goodbye to loved ones and tie up any loose ends before passing away.

Ultimately, a good death is one that allows a person to die with dignity, on their own terms. My personalized holistic end-of-life services can help make that possible.

"Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it."

– Haruki Murakami

Services

  • In-Home, In-Facility & Virtual Support
  • Advance Care Planning
  • Life Review & Legacy Work
  • Swedish Death Cleaning
  • Caregiver Support
  • Guided Meditation
  • Reiki / Energy Work
  • Vigil & Ritual Planning
  • Bereavement Support
 

No-Cost Consultation

This 30-minute consultation will be a great way to decide if we are a good fit for this journey together. 

Consultations can take place in-person, via phone, or virtually through Zoom, Facetime, or WhatsApp – whichever is best for you.